Christian Ironies (part one)

•June 11, 2015 • Leave a Comment

American Christians are nothing if not ironic.  Sadly, our ironic approaches to some things gives us little influence with a non-Christian world…and they see through our hypocrisy.

Christian ironies…

1.  We complain that prayer is not allowed in school or public forums when we don’t pray much ourselves.  (The fact is that you can pray anytime, anywhere.)

2.  We pray for more “stuff” but then use the “stuff” God gives us as an excuse to ignore the Kingdom of God and his church.  (i.e., Man prays, “God, give me a boat”.  God gives boat.  Man now spends every Sunday on the lake enjoying his new boat while ignoring his church.)

3.  We’re infuriated when someone wants to remove a display of the Ten Commandments but we neither can quote them nor do we understand their purpose.   (The only Commandments that most Christians can name are the ones they think they’re not guilty of.)  (The purpose of the Ten Commandments is not to establish an orderly society.  Their purpose is to indict us as sinners before a holy God and point us to Christ).  (The fact is we can’t keep the Ten Commandments – that’s why Jesus came, died, and rose again.)

4.  We look down on people who drink, smoke, chew, (fill in your pet sin you like to condemn in others) but our gossiping, complaining, over-eating, anger, bitterness, manipulation, greediness, selfishness, materialism, and possession-hoarding?  Not a problem.

5.  We decry too much emotional display in church but get frustrated by a lack of emotion at a sporting event.

6. We’re passionately opposed to gay marriage but don’t think that our adultery, porn addiction, live-in arrangement, hookups, or divorce has any effect on the marriage covenant.

7.  We encourage our children to over-commit themselves so that they have little time for spiritual things (i.e. church) and/or make church judgmental, condemning, and boring, then we’re shocked when they abandon church after high school.

Maybe church folks should begin with the “plank in their own eye” … just a thought.

More to come.

 

Henri Nouwen and some great questions…

•May 27, 2015 • Leave a Comment

I’m reading Henri Nouwen’s book Discernment and he asks some good questions each of us needs to ponder…

Are we working with the poor or choosing to be in solidarity with them?

Are we squandering our time or seizing time as a constant opportunity to discover more about ourselves, our neighbor, and our God?

Are we structuring our days to be distracted and entertained, or to let our hearts grow more mature and strong?

Are we responding to our inner fears and pains by ignoring them, or do we choose to face them and live into and through our fears and pains with the help of others who accompany us?

Are we talking or praying, worrying or giving thanks, looking at images that arouse or those that bring joy, dwelling with our anger or with the one who can bring peace?

 

Things considerate people don’t do…

•May 11, 2015 • Leave a Comment

THINGS CONSIDERATE PEOPLE DON’T DO…

They don’t think life is a sum zero game.

They don’t say the first things that pop into their heads.

They don’t ask uncomfortable questions.

They don’t show up late.

They don’t give unwarranted advice.

They don’t take acts of gratitude for granted.

They don’t leave people out.

They don’t lose their temper easily.

They don’t talk about themselves constantly.

They don’t make assumptions.

They don’t constantly put themselves first.

They don’t assume you like what they like.

They don’t forget important life events.

They don’t blow things out of proportion.

They don’t think they know it all.

They don’t harshly criticize.

They don’t equate kindness with weakness.

They don’t interrupt you.

They don’t mind giving people the benefit of the doubt.

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I condensed this from a longer article.  You can find the entire article here …

http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/20-things-considerate-people-dont.html?ref=tp&n=1

 

A recent trip to a Christian bookstore.

•March 27, 2015 • 1 Comment

Yesterday I visited a local Christian bookstore.  Although I love to read and books are treasures to me, I don’t go to bookstores too much anymore … has to do with a little something called AMAZON.COM.

As I walked through this particularly denominational bookstore (the denomination I was brought up and trained in), three questions came to my mind…

1.  Why is there so much Jesus junk?  I don’t like “Jesus junk”.  I know it’s a personal thing but I just get tired of Jesus bookmarks, coffee cups, wall plaques, t-shirts, statues, ribbons, hats, pins, rings, etc., etc.  Jesus said, “They will know you’re my disciples by your love”.  I guess it’s just easier to wear a Jesus t-shirt than it is to love our overweight, drunken, drug-addicted, gay neighbor … or our fellow church members.  And if I see “Footprints in the Sand”  one more time…

2.  Why does a denominational bookstore that is owned by a denomination that doesn’t believe in “prosperity theology” sell so many books by … prosperity theology preachers?

3.  Why aren’t there more books about what Jesus HAS DONE for us (i.e. “It is finished”) instead of so many books about what I must now DO FOR Jesus?  Apparently, I need to pray better, live better, fast better, do better with my money, be a better spouse, be a better parent, be a better pastor, do better at living up to my God-given potential, do better at understanding the Four Blood Moons (whatever that is) etc., etc.  Jesus said he came to give us rest but by the look of Christian bookstore shelves, Jesus has anything but rest planned for us.

When I got home I asked my wife, “Is it wrong that I feel out-of-place in … a Christian bookstore?”

So, all you super-Christians need to pray for me.  I’m sure there’s a book that will tell you how to do it better.

Hospitals and Heart Surgeries

•March 6, 2014 • Leave a Comment

I spent the day today with my wife and her family at one of Atlanta’s premiere hospitals anticipating my father-in-law’s quadruple bypass surgery. The surgery was postponed until tomorrow because the surgery before his went longer than the surgeon anticipated.

Observations…

* There is a great deal of sickness and pain in the world. It reminds us that people are hurting in all kinds of ways. We live in a broken world. But one day … there will be no pain or death. Jesus took care of that for us.

* It seems that people in hospital waiting rooms are kinder to each other than in most other places. I guess we feel a kinship with people who are concerned about their loved ones and are waiting the latest “word” from the doctor – usually never knowing what to expect. Perhaps that kindness should extend into other areas of our society – because everyone is hurting in some way.

* A good hospital staff certainly makes things a bit easier. I thank the wonderful staff of Piedmont Hospital/Atlanta for their overwhelming compassion, kindness, courtesy, and professionalism. A great staff makes all the difference.

* The kindness and contact from friends to let us know they are praying and thinking about us is humbling and wonderful.  Thank God for good friends.

So we return tomorrow to see what the day brings forth.

One Way Love…continued…yet again

•January 15, 2014 • Leave a Comment

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I am reading Tullian Tchividjian’s new book, ONE WAY LOVE (INEXHAUSTIBLE GRACE FOR AN EXHAUSTED WORLD). Tullian is the grandson of Billy Graham and the pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

Letting Tullian speak for a few blogs. (See previous blogs).

“(It’s) a little ironic … most of the things we tend to define ourselves by are things we’re going to lose anyway…”

“…You are not who others see you to be, and you are not who you see yourself to be; you are who God sees yo to be – his beloved child, with whom he is well pleased.”

“Constant introspection makes us increasingly self-centered – – the exact opposite of how the Bible describes obedience or goodness.”

Application is almost always a code word for law.

“Grace begins where pride ends.”

“Grace is radically unbalanced.  It contains no but:  it is unconditional, uncontrollable, unpredictable, and undomesticated – or else it is not grace.”

“Grace is wild. Grace unsettles everything.  Grace overflows the banks.  Grace messes up your hair.  Grace is not tame.  In fact, unless we are making the devout nervous, we are not preaching grace as we ought.”  (quoted from Doug Wilson)

This wraps it up. I hope you will read Tullian’s book and be blessed by it as I have been.

So, let us without reservation embrace and enjoy God’s unlimited grace.

Grace to you.

One Way Love…continued…again

•January 13, 2014 • Leave a Comment

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I am reading Tullian Tchividjian’s new book, ONE WAY LOVE (INEXHAUSTIBLE GRACE FOR AN EXHAUSTED WORLD). Tullian is the grandson of Billy Graham and the pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

Letting Tullian speak for a few blogs. (See previous two blogs).

“If the law is the first word, grace is the last. The Law exposes…grace exonerates. The Law diagnoses, grace delivers. The law accuses, grace acquits. The Law condemns the best of us, while grace saves the worst of us. The Law says ‘cursed’, grace says ‘blessed’. The Law says ‘slave’ while grace says ‘son’. The Law says ‘guilty’, grace says ‘forgiven’. The Law can break a hard heart but grace can heal one.”

“…not one of the original 12 disciples was a religious person.”

“A grateful heart is a generous heart, and a generous heart is a liberated heart.”

“Where disobedience flourishes, it is not the fault of too much grace but rather of our failure to grasp the depth of God’s one-way love for us in the midst of our transgressions and greed. Grace and obedience are not enemies, not by a long shot.”

“Jesus did not come for the “good people” who need a helping hand.  He came for those who are completely hopeless without him.”

One surefire way to know you’re starting to grasp this message of grace is when you’re finally able to admit that you’re not the good guy – that you never were and apart from grace you never will be.”

“The more I focus on how I am doing – the more I check my spiritual pulse – the more anxious and neurotic I become.”

You think about that.

Grace to you.

One Way Love…continued

•January 10, 2014 • Leave a Comment

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I am reading Tullian Tchividjian’s new book, ONE WAY LOVE (INEXHAUSTIBLE GRACE FOR AN EXHAUSTED WORLD). Tullian is the grandson of Billy Graham and the pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

Letting Tullian speak for a  few blogs.  (See previous blog ONE WAY LOVE).

“By nature, you are completely addicted to a legal method of salvation.  Even after you become a Christian by believing the Gospel, your heart is still addicted to a salvation by works…you find it hard to believe that you should get any blessing before you work for it” (quoted from Walter Marshal, THE GOSPEL MYSTERY OF SANCTIFICATION).

“The Law offends us because it tells us what to do – and most of the time, we hate anyone telling us what to do.  But ironically, grace offends us even more, because it tells us that there is nothing we can do, that everything has already been done.”

“Grace generates panic, because it wrestles both control and glory out of our hands.”

“Make no mistake:  over time, preachers who major on law and behavior rather than grace and faith will empty their pews and create refugees.”

“Pulpits today are full of preachers telling one-legged people to jump higher and run faster.”

“I have attended church regularly since I was less than a week old.  I’ve listened to sermons about virtue, sermons against vice.  I have heard about money, time management, tithing, abstinence, and generosity.  I’ve listened to thousands of sermons.  But I could count on one hand the number of sermons that were a simple proclamation of the Gospel of Christ.” (quoted from Rich Mullins)

“We make a big mistake when we conclude that the Law is the answer to bad behavior.”

“…helplessness creates the space for God’s amazing grace.”

Think about that today.

Grace to you.

One Way Love

•January 8, 2014 • Leave a Comment

I just began reading Tullian Tchividjian’s new book, ONE WAY LOVE (INEXHAUSTIBLE GRACE FOR AN EXHAUSTED WORLD). Tullian is the grandson of Billy Graham and the pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

Think I’ll let Tullian speak for the next couple of blogs…

“God saves us single-handedly.”

“God’s indiscriminate compassion always gets “religious” people up in arms.”

“The Bible is not a record of the blessed good, but rather the blessed bad…what we discover is that the so-called heroes in the Bible are not really heroes at all. They fall and fail; they make huge mistakes; they get afraid; they’re selfish, deceptive, egotistical, and unreliable. The Bible is one long story of God meeting our rebellion with his rescue…the overhelming focus of the Bible is not the work of the redeemed but the work of the Redeemer.”

“Grace is unconditional acceptance given to an undeserving person by an unobligated giver.”

(Jesus) came to emancipate us from the burden to get it all right, from the obligation to fix ourselves, find ourselves, and free ourselves.”

“…the Gospel only sounds good to a heart that knows it is bad. For people who think they’re good, grace is frustrating.”

“It’s when we come to the end of ourselves that we come to the beginning of grace.”

That should give us something to think about today.

Grace.

I am…

•January 5, 2014 • Leave a Comment

In Ephesians 1:3-14, the Apostle Paul gives us the lead story of the Gospel by reminding us who we are in Christ.

Read through the text.  I have turned these statements of Paul about our identity in Christ into “I am…” statements.  I encourage you for the next few days to repeatedly run these statements through your mind and be gloriously reminded who you are in Christ.

I am blessed (vs. 3) in heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing,

I am chosen (vss. 4 & 11) in him before the creation of the world,

I am holy (vs 4),

I am blameless (vs.4 ) in his sight,

I am loved (vs. 4),

I am predestined (vs. 5),

I am adopted (vs. 5) as God’s child through Jesus Christ,

I am graced (vs. 6-7),

I am redeemed (vs. 7) through his blood,

I am for the praise of his glorious grace (vss. 12 & 14),

I am included (vs. 13) in Christ,

I am marked in him (vss. 13-14) with his seal.

This week … you think about that.